Friday, October 14, 2011

Mind Games = Dead Ends

Some people may believe there was a time the men population endlessly played mind games to catch as many "preys" they can. They would show off and feed their ego by bragging about the number of preys they've caught or have to play with. Nowadays, men and women have joined together to play useless mind games. I can only imagine how chaotic it must be in the dating scene. It seems that the code is to be open-minded, express your freedom, and explore. And of course that code is based on a person's perception. It also seems that no one knows the role they play, or who's who. Everybody liking everything and each other sounds appealing to the mindset of "you only live once, live it up to the fullest." As a result, you have a female messing around with a dude who's messing around with another dude, and that dude is married to a female who's messing around with another female, and that female is messing around with dudes and females.....woo wee, i guess sharing is caring....Sike! you can keep that dating scene to yourself pimps and pimpettes.

I know we all had our share in "the game", but things are different now. You only live once, and live it up to the fullest should be used for other experiences that help one to grow and influence the world in a positive way. Yeah, that shit sounds corny to a horny 18 or 23 year old, but when your ass gets older, your regrets will make you age quicker.

Its a known fact we live in a very selfish environment. Period. Everyone is for self. What makes ME feel good. What makes ME look good. What makes ME be the next one on top. And some people will do whatever it takes to get what they feel belongs to them. But the crazy thing about that is selfish people are always looking for something or someone that will help them hide....granted, while hiding, some try to discover their good qualities, and understand how to love, and want to do better. Some try to create an illusion to keep them "normal". Meanwhile others walk around wearing these "costumes" and succeed to fool many. Some wear the costume of confidence, generosity, loyalty, security, and power. Then they head out and go hunting for their next victim or activity to satisfy SELF.

Women use their manipulative ways to get what they want from a man; and men use their sexual ways to satisfy their appetite and simultaneously show or prove they have some type of control over a woman. So far, from what I've heard, women are ahead of the game. I'm just on the sideline clapping for the females who got their shit in order.....not just a mind game master, but a no non-sense chick (NNC). She's been there done that, but bounced back and kept it moving while your ass just stood there watching her ass walking away. Ego.....checked. Balls.....crushed. LOL. Fuuuuunnny. Anyway, back to what I was saying.....

As the players of the mind games continue to play, they will sometimes face the inevitable - a dead end. Imagine if you're playing a sport that requires you to think of your next move in order to score. Now imagine you're playing this sport non-stop, and you can't take too many breaks because you will get stomped on. You have to keep up to keep scoring. Eventually, your ass will run out of everything. You not gonna have a damn thing to offer anymore. "Anything done under the sun has already been done"....duh! All the tricks you've used to score are old. Shit....your ass old! You gonna need to sit your ass down and look around you. Then you'll realize, all the other mind gamers have gone their own way. Some to be old like you and continue with their old fuckeries. Otlhers will eventually stop playing mind games and settle down with love or without love....as long they're not alone, they're ok.

Bottomline, mind games are a waste of time. They will bring you some sexual escapades, some thrills, some drama, some STDs, some abortions, some sleeping/prescription pills, and some more stuff that will eventually wear you out. Mmmmmm....interesting...I don't see anything positive in these games, but yet, we still play the damn thing. Smdh.

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